Thus we want local area and association. As the porcupines in Shopenhauer's tale, notwithstanding, closeness accompanies the gamble of getting injured. We prick each other with our metaphorical plumes, and afterward we retreat to maintain a protected separation. To make a feeling of profound security, we will generally do one of two things: possibly we take a stab at closeness at our own impediment, not defining any limits and permitting ourselves to be dealt with seriously for keeping the association. We won't say no in light of the fact that we dread deserting. On the other hand, we set up walls and fences, not allowing anybody to draw near, with an end goal to protect ourselves. Tolerating help is impossible and those gentler feelings like closeness, love, and care are kept under control.
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